Todd made an appearance on the blog this week and not sure about you but I thought it was great and also made me laugh out loud. I will never try to compete with his writing style and that is a-okay. He is one of a kind and I'm a lucky lady.
This week has been incredibly busy. It's the week before spring break and if you have ever been in school/college then you know how it is. Everything seems to be piling up. But I'm hanging in there and trying to get everything I possibly can done so that I can enjoy our time out of town. We plan to travel to the coast for just a few days to visit family which will be a great change of scenery.
But in the midst of working/studying/cataloging/projects, I managed to order and receive via mail (thanks Amazon) a book that my roommate Hollie suggested titled
His Needs, Her Needs. As tired as I was last night, I still wanted to start reading it before bed. The book immediately hooked me as the author quickly brings up the subject of affairs. Not that he wishes that upon anyone, but he clearly outlines the emotions of men and women. Thus when those needs are not met, people seek them elsewhere. Affair is scary word. Personally, Todd and I don't want it in our vocabulary and vow to never threaten those words. However, I do believe that doesn't mean we aren't immune to it. After reading just the first chapter of this book, I know I'm going to gain so much insight into learning how to care for his needs and being aware of our emotions. The book does remind me a little of
The Five Love Languages that I read a few weeks ago. So whether you are getting married or already married, this may be a book you want to check out just to guard yourselves and be reminded of what love is all about. I'll try to keep you updated on any other points in the book I find interesting!
Just like I'm taking four classes this semester, I take the idea of marriage really seriously as if it's a class. I truly believe people spend too much time planning for the "big day" but after they walk down the aisle they have a "what's next" attitude. I'm thankful for the incredible couples I know in my life that have gone before me to be such great role models at gaining wisdom for life after the alter. I know I can't read all the books and get all the answers before May 28 but I never want to look back and remember just a big celebration. The true celebration is that God is joining two people together as one that represents the body of Christ. May we never forget that.
-Sara